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DATING TIPS
- YOU WANT TO FIND YOUR WIFE?! WHERE TO BEGIN WITH?
It is always difficult to make the first steps and FIND YOUR WIFE!! But our service will make the best in order to help you to find Russian bride. Whatever the reasons for this obviously unconventional decision, you'd better learn a bit before you start.
You should clearly understand all stages you have to go through to marry a Russian woman, and start your new life. But before this you should create your own strategy to ensure success. There is an old truth: to find the right partner you must be the right partner yourself.
Our agency advice below is based on our work experiences of those men who met their Soul Mates in Russia this way, and now are successfully married. Try to choose the ways that are acceptable for you - do not think of the techniques described as hard-and-fast, but rather as a guide and will definitely help you.
We ask you to be reasonable in your search and your wishes. Yes, you can find a woman 30 years younger, and even can marry her, but your marriage will rarely last for more than 2 years - the necessary time for receiving a Green Card. The majority of Russian women seeking their future husband are Not desperate to immigrate from Russia. Russian women are usually well educated, attractive and smart. Their REAL WISH is to find their COMPARIBLE partners.
Russian women have their self-confidence and normally look for healthy, financially secure, attractive men, we don't think that there are any who would like to get married to homeless, unemployed, with bad character and health problem men. So do remember that the time when any foreigner could easily find a beautiful, young, intelligent Russian Lady 30 years younger than him, who is eager to become his wife.. this time has passed FOREVER. The world is changing very fast and Russia is nothing like you have seen in the movies of the times of the Cold War.
- WHAT IS IMPORTANT FOR RUSSIAN LADIES?
SECURITY and LOVE, UNDERSTANDING and SINCERITY. These are the most important things that every Russian woman in OUR agency is looking for. Have a look at the forms with requirements to a potential partner, and almost all of them say to you the same things.
The most popular requirement you will come across is "financially secure". Don't think that this means wealthy!! In short, it means, you should have at least a stable job and be able to provide for a family of 3. You don't have to have a six-figure annual income. NOT AT ALL!! Having a stable job is good enough; but the better your financial situation, the easier you will make contacts with nice Russian ladies and they will be more open with you.
THIS DEFINTELY DOES NOT MEAN THAT RUSSIAN WOMEN ARE AFTER YOUR MONEY! Definitely not! Unfortunately our Russian women have suffered enough in Russian with everyday surviving, trying to be sure in tomorrow although knowing that they have no one to rely one. That is why major of Russian women want to make sure that this will never happen to them and their families again. We can assure your that your Russian wife will stick with you for better and worse, through any turn of fortune.. But she can be sure and confident that you are not an unemployed hobo.
The fact that you are financial secure, and have good financial standing will only impress women and they will already think that you are the person whom they can trust on this aspect. But other factors are also even more important than financial as Russian women want to see relationships that work and this will involve mostly emotional factors.
Sometimes being wealthy and handsome can even have a negative impression on women. Unfortunately among Russian women the thought that a handsome and wealthy man is not really wishing to have nuclear family, he may just play games.
- YOUR PERSONALITY
The very first impression that every Russian lady gets mostly depends on your profile. In this aspect one of the most important thing is BE YOURSELF! It is well known fact that every woman can see what is true and what is false. False is one of those things that Russian women can feel and figure out due to their intuition. So we advice you to be romantic, intriguing and sophisticate but be YOURSELF.
When you are honest, straightforward it is much better and for you it will be easier to find your real soul mate. You won't feel ashamed or uncomfortable because of something that you told when you meet that Russian lady you have been corresponding with.
Don't be afraid to say that you like socializing and different kinds of parties. This will only underline that you are not concentrating only on work and home, but will show your personality. Say what you want the Russian lady to know about you but try to present your qualities in a positive manner to avoid attracting the wrong Lady!
Your profile is a little story about you, don't hide that you were married and now divorced, it is always better to indicate how many children you have. There are plenty beautiful Russian women, who have children and have to bring them up alone, your attitude to children is VERY important to them.
Describing your interests and your personality is also important, make your narration colorful and try to indicate all the sides of you! Russian women are intelligent and wise, they do want to find the partner who are equal to their intellect.
The thing that plays one of the main roles in your success is your photo. All Russian women try to present good professional photos, so that a man could see them clearly. Don't you think that you should do the same? What impression can a woman get from a small, of not good quality photo of you? Definitely not good one. We do know that major part of men don't make photos especially for this but please avoid sending photos such as:
- not clear
- made by web cam, cell phone
- where you are standing far away
- with someone else on the picture
- NEVER send the photos where you are with another woman!!!( even if you tried to cut it)
- SEND THE RECENT PHOTOS!!! (at lease 2 years old photos, not older)
If your follow this you will have a certain percent of success, you won't feel uncomfortable when you meet the Lady as she will know how you look like and will never pass you by!! Your photos are the first sing of your respect and your seriousness. We don't think that you would reply to any woman that has just sent to you a profile and no photo… so please think about this also.
- HOW TO GET A RESPONSE
It is one of the difficult things to work out. The question is not only in how to get a response but you also have to have a good choice. Than the question arises - how many to write? There is no definite answer. We are all different and no one knows what we should wait for. One can write one letter and fall in love at once, another person will need more time for this. One thing we know for sure that the result depends on you and how much effort you put in.
It is obvious that if you are young and handsome you will get many positive answers. But if not be realistic don't choose too young women and than you will get the response.
Don't forget to indicate that you would like to get an answer even if it is negative one as if you ask for response there is a better chance that you will have it. Do remember that it is absolutely normal in all kinds of relationships with Russian women - if you want to ask about something - ASK!!
You should remember the language difference, even if a Russian lady knows it well, we still have differences and sometimes women struggle with reading the letters. Make your narration simple but informative, but not just only facts and bio data. The better your English, the worse it will sound. It is better for you if your response will be not later than a week after the first letter. thus you show your interest in woman and she replies you the same. Before writing just try to think what kind of letter YOU would love to get and what will really make you interested in… and than write this in your first letter. Don't forget about romance Russian women are so tired of fighting for life, of Russian men terrible behavior, some women don't even experience good relationships in their lives and they need this affections and romantic words, they will absorb your words with such a desire… and you will definitely make them interested in you!! Although you should be careful about this aspect, combine dreams and feeling with real life and try to be also down to earth.
Like you woman can have several candidates whom she can correspond with and she will also have to make a decision one day. Don't hesitate and ask her if she has a real interest in you and feel that you are right for each other. It is better to be honest with yourself, persistent but don't forget about being gentle
If you are open in your intentions, if you don't have anything to hide, you will get more answers than you expect! Thus you will have a choice!! Try to make your narration that kind - so that Russian woman couldn't help answering it!! If your letter will have some additional photos of your life this will increase the interest of many Russian women.
NEVER tell a woman that you are planning to visit her country as you are meeting another lady there!!! Every Russian woman wants to be the ONLY one for her man and she will never understand this act, as she doesn't want to be the reserved variant!!
So men, try and get the responses from the Russian ladies and one of them will be your Adorable Wife!!
- HOW TO MAKE YOUR VIRTUAL RELATIONSHIP BRIGHT AND LONG
NEVER forget that every Russian lady dreams about being the only one for her special man! Every woman will be pleased and will appreciate every effort you make to win her heart and draw her attention. Sending letters every day or just simple postcards once a week will give an amazing result. REMEMBER Russian women are so tired of not insistent men in Russia who can't court women so don't make the same mistakes! Be insistent, be romantic with that one you are interested in. Always show her your interest in her!
Even if you got a negative answer from a woman that you are so interested in, just suggest her to stay friends and be in touch. We always have a chance and no one knows she may change her mind due to some circumstances.
TRY NOT TO LOSE THAT INTEREST THAT SHE ALREADY HAS TO YOU!!
If you have already thought about visiting her country, don't hesitate indicate this in the very beginning. Thus you will assure her that you are not going to correspond endless but you are serious about your search!
After a couple of letters you can offer a woman to have a telephone talk. If she is not sure about her English knowledge tell her that there is a possibility to speak with the help of interpreter. Speak slowly and try to choose simple words. Always remember that it is much more difficult to understand someone by the phone than when you speak face to face.
While you correspond you should phone your lady from time to time, just to listen to her voice and let her listen to yours. You must try to keep your virtual relationships by real things otherwise your relationships will seem unreal to her.
Sending little presents and flowers will give a decisive impact on your relationships with Russian lady. Your attention will first of all your genuine interest and care about that lady! Don't forget to send greeting cards and any kind of present with her birthday, Christmas and New Year, Women's Day. REMEMBER your SPECIAL DAY is St. Valentine's Day. It is also celebrated in Russia more and more colorful with each year. This is that day when every Russian woman waits and desires attention and feeling that she is special to someone! You should show your attention not just because of the holidays but also just because you want to make her day bright and happy. Our agency will help you to deliver everything you order!
However you should know where to stop!! Don't try to impress a Russian lady by your presents. Of course it is a pleasure for her but nothing will be greater than personal communication. You may not send anything to woman but just offer her to have personal meeting.
You may also pay for her English lessons instead of sending her flowers, although you should be ready that she is likely to refuse your financial help. We can say that Russian women are different and everything that concerns money matters are very -very personal!
Never think that you can buy affection of any Russian woman!
- THE FIRST REAL STEP TO YOUR HAPPINESS- PERSONAL MEETING
Basing on our working experience love to Russian ladies includes not only letters but real commitment. You should realize that long distance relationships have no sense without knowing the possibility of being together in the future. Every woman needs to be sure that you are ready to give her this kind of commitment. If you are looking for something else but not real life, real marriage Russian women won't have serious attitude to you!
When you have already made up your mind don't hesitate and tell the lady about your decision as soon as possible. Don't correspond with many women for months as this won't give you anything. Usually it takes 2-3 letters to understand and to find out if this lady correspond your requirements and she is that one you have been looking for. Don't waste your time and her as well!
- WHICH WAY OF MEETING IS FOR YOU?
There are not so many ways to meet that woman whom you have chosen. Many factors depend on what country you live in. according to the rules American men, should first meet the lady in neutral territory before applying for the fiance visa other wise Russian women can't enter the Unite States. The process of meeting the Russian lady for European men is much easier.
You should mind that Russian women can't afford themselves to pay the expenses connected with the meeting. We can imagine that you may think that there is no guarantee that she will be that one you are looking for but our agency can guarantee that the lady is real and she will meet you. However who doesn't take risks don't drink champagne!! If you don't try you will never know!
1. You are visiting her
This is definitely the best way and the most convenient for you and for her. If you can afford this you will just spend the money on your trip. It is also good if your lady lives in a big city (eg. Not far from Moscow). This way of meeting will help you to meet her family and friends. Personal meeting in her city is a great opportunity to see real woman's life, her every day routine her relation to other people in her life- believe us this kind of experience is invaluable!
In case if your meeting was nice but you understand that she is not that one you imagine your life with. You have very big advantage. YOU ARE IN RUSSIA! You can use this chance and meet other ladies, just visit marriage agencies and have a look at the profiles and settle the date!
2. You are meeting each other in Moscow, St. Petersburg or any other third country
From one hand this variant may be the most suitable for both sides. You can book two separate rooms in the same hotel and you will spend lots of time together having fun and going to the sightseeing together. Although this way of meeting is more expensive and unfortunately doesn't give you as much information and impression as the first one does. None of you feel completely relaxed and in familiar environmental.
3. You invite Russian lady to visit your place (not applicable for the USA, Canada and Australia)
Russian lady you invite to can either buy a tour or apply for getting visa herself if she has your official invitation. Of course it is the best way for you to show her how you live, where you live, your every day life. This will give her a great impression what she can have in future if she is going to marry you. It is an ideal variant and chance to impress her as we have different standards of life. However this way is the most expensive for you. You are supposed to pay the expenses and it is obviously cheaper for you to visit Russia.
It is practically impossible for Russian women to get a visitor's visa to some countries such as the USA or Canada. If you are living in one of these countries be ready to make your mind from the very beginning that you will have to go to the other end of the world first.
- HOW TO SECURE YOURSELF FROM BEING CHEATED AND SCAMMED
You can use any of these ways but don't forget it also should suit your lady. You can do everything by yourself. But marriage agencies like ours knows Russian realities better and can prevent you from making different mistakes. We can help you with the translation services, choosing a good quality hotel, organizing the meetings with the ladies.
If you decide to have a meeting not in her country but somewhere else it will be wise from your side to send her travel expenses not directly to the lady. It will be better to pay for the tickets through the service thus you will be sure that she will definitely take these tickets and come to you.
Try to plan your meeting before hand and don't forget to find our before hand if a lady has a foreign passport, you can even ask about this in the beginning as this will show your seriousness and her willingness as well.
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